Does size matter?

NO!  The answer is no, a million times no – and here’s why.

Many people are obsessed with fitting into a particular size, whether it’s the size they wore in high school, the size Hollywood tells us we should be or the size the skinny girl in the office says SHE wears.  It becomes an unhealthy focus and can lead to serious self-esteem issues and/or eating disorders.

Let’s talk about the numbers on that tiny piece of material attached to your jeans and why they don’t matter.

  1. It’s a game!  Designers know that people, especially women, will buy a garment that has a size 4 label, over one that has a size 8 label, every time.  So while your TRUE size might be 8, you’re going to buy the brand that tells you that you’re a size 4.  In the end, the designer who tells you what you want to hear (read), wins.
  2. Individuals of the same height and weight can wear very different sizes.  You can have a “pear shaped” woman who weighs 150 lbs, she may wear a size 12 in jeans, while a 150 lb, top-heavy woman who is slimmer through the hips may wear a size 6.
  3. Brands and styles have very different cuts.  Have you ever noticed that a particular store who caters to a younger crowd, carries pants that are longer and slimmer?  These stores are targeting individuals who have a particular body shape.   Someone with a more “mature” body shape, who usually wears a size 4 will not be able to pull this store’s size 4 pants up over her thighs. The clothing in this store is not made with a her body shape in mind.
  4. Many of us are not one uniform size.  Some may have a small waist and carry weight through the hips and thighs, others may have a wide waist and very thin legs.  While there are some people who slide right into those pants, the rest of us need a good tailor.

In the end, who, besides you, really knows what that tag says – or cares for that matter?  I don’t think anyone really knows what a true size 0,2,4,6,8……is anymore.

Why do we let that number bother us so much?  Does it determine our value as a human being?  Does it make us a better person?

The best fashion advice I’ve ever received was, buy for the largest part of your body and have the rest tailored.  A nice, tailored, put together look beats squeezing yourself into something that makes you look and feel like a Vienna sausage, just because the tag, that no one can see says “4”.


Sahaswara, The Seventh Chakra

Sahaswara, also known as the “crown chakra” is the center for trust, devotion, inspiration, happiness, and positivity. It’s also the center for deeper connection with ourselves and deeper connection with a force of life that is greater than ourselves.

Sahaswara is referred to as the thousand-petal lotus chakra.  The lotus flower is a symbol in both the Hindu and Buddhist traditions. It is nurtured, grows, and emerges in muddy waters. It blooms where there is no clarity.

There are many ways to help open the “crown chakra”.

  1. Get inspired – find something that helps you feel inspired, uplifted, positive and open.  Anything that brings you inspiration will help open this chakra.  Find what inspires you an reflect on it daily.
  2. Practice affirmations – practice positive affirmations throughout the day to help keep this chakra open.  Ex. “I am open and expanded”.
  3. Visualize – imagine the top of the head being open and expanded, connected to a force greater than yourself.

Several asanas can also help open this chakra.

Half Lotus Pose

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Tree Pose

Corpse Pose

Supported headstand

Opening this chakra leads to a feeling of calm, positivity and well-being,  I believe most of us need to deliberately work on opening the crown chakra, it does not come easily in the beginning.

A Yummy Win!

In the 1980’s, Professor Ancel Keys published the results of his investigation into cardiovascular death rates in different countries. He found death rates were low in Greece, southern Italy and Japan, and relatively high in the USA and Finland.

The Mediterranean Diet has certain types and amounts of food. If eaten consistently, it has been shown to reduce the risks of developing heart disease, cancer, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, Parkinson’s disease and Alzheimer’s disease. Following the diet has also been linked with a reduced risk of early death and has proven success for healthy weight reduction.

The Mediterranean Diet is rich in vegetables, fruit, peas and beans (legumes) and grains. It also contains moderate amounts of chicken and fish.  There is little red meat and most fat is unsaturated and comes from olive oil and nuts. Along with moderate exercise and not smoking, the Mediterranean Diet is a scientifically researched, affordable, balanced, and healthy lifestyle choice.

See the Mediterranean Food Pyramid below.

Mediterranean diet pyramid

The power of food is amazing, what a yummy way to help stay healthy!

Ajna – trust it!

Ajna, is the sixth chakra, also known as the third eye.  The Anja is the second spiritual chakra, it means “beyond wisdom”, this is the center of your intuition.  This chakra is located between the eyebrows, the pituitary glands, eyes, lower part of the brain and head are ruled by this chakra.    Opening this chakra allows lucid dreaming, telepathy, wide imagination and visualization.

Ajna is also referred to as our “sixth sense”.  We are taught to rely on our five senses, sight, hearing, taste, smell and touch.  While each of these senses are important, when rely solely on what we can see, hear, taste, smell and touch, we limit our awareness.  Long ago, humans had to rely on intuition, over the years we’ve lost trust in our intuition and rely on what we “know”.

This chakra is best balanced through meditation and breathing or pranayama.  A tingling sensation after mediation is a sign that this chakra is beginning to open.  A breathing technique called “bee breath” can help balance this chakra.  This technique is done by closing the eyes and placing the middle fingers over the eyes, the pointer fingers over the eyebrows and pinkies fall at the cheekbones.  Inhale deeply, as you exhale make the sound “AUM”, emphasizing the “M” and making the sound like a bee buzzing.  This technique is typically done for about two minutes and can help alleviate headaches as well.

Yoga poses in which the forehead is pressed down also helps to balance the Ajna.  Practice the poses below to help open and balance your third eye, and trust your intuition!

Childs Pose

Dolphin Pose

Head to Knee Pose


Celebrate in style, a healthy style!

Yea!   Who doesn’t love a long holiday weekend?  Parties, BBQs and fireworks, they’re all part of our Independence Day celebrations.  Using the holiday as an excuse for a “pass” on you healthy habits will only lead to guilt, bloat, sluggishness and poor sleep.  Good news, you can have your cake and eat it too – well kind of………..

The first thing you need to do is to make a plan.  If you have a celebration to host or attend this weekend, make sure you have healthy choices available for the rest of the day.  Fill up on water and clean, whole foods, with lots of bulk.

When you arrive, greet your hosts and other guests and then check out the buffet.  Take it all in, making mental notes of the things you’d really like to try and the things you can do without.  Try to stay away from the snacky stuff, save your calories for the meal.  When it’s time to eat, choose 3-4 things that really interest you or that are your favs, take about half of what you think you’ll eat, grab a bottle of water, sit down and eat slowly – really enjoy the wonderful foods you may not get to eat often.  If you feel like you want a second serving, wait 20 minutes, get up and move around, if you’re still thinking about going back, go back and serve yourself small portions of 2 items and then resolve yourself to being finished.

OK, let’s move on to cocktails!  If you like to have alcoholic beverages on special occasions, go for it – but be smart about it!   I’ve mentioned it before – there  is a reason they call it a beer belly!  However, if beer is your drink of choice, try to choose a “low carb” brand.  The average number of calories in 1 bottle of beer is 154 – these add up quickly!  If wine is your  thing, think about making a refreshing wine spritzer.  A glass of white wine has 120 calories, if you top off 4 oz of wine with some club soda you’re looking at 80 calories – you just saved yourself 40 calories!  Red wine offers up 125 calories.  If you’re into mixed drinks – stick with light liquors rather than dark and watch your mixers!  Regular sodas and juices can jack up the calorie count – try to stick with water or club soda, or a little bit of both.  Frozen drinks are down right dangerous – 1, 12 oz Margarita hits you with 540 calories!  My point is, liquid calories can sneak up on us.  Know how many calories you’re pouring down your throat and remember moderation is key.  Not only can liquid calories add up fast, we tend to make poor choices when we’ve had too much, maybe not knowing when to stop or eating more food to help balance the blood sugar that is on a roller coaster.  I recommend alternating alcoholic beverages with water – this will help with hangovers as well:)

I’ve posted some recipes below that would be great to serve or bring to share, I hope you find something that looks good to you!

I made these kabobs on Memorial Day – they were a huge hit!  Even with my 8 year old 🙂

I love berries with a little cool whip for dessert, but here are some good looking sweet treats!

Have a great holiday!